Is anyone, on BARiTONES? Yvette and I have both been variously undercover so long we struggle with being genuine, we're a mess of betrayal and abandonment issues, and generally tend to shove aside pursuits that aren't directly in the path of our goals.

But there's no reason we need to be beholden to the "traditional sense" of anything. Call it what you want, but—he cares about you, so why not let him?