So, we can absolutely make something happen that both of you will actually enjoy and will feel like a "you" thing.

I mean, no one here would recognize the kinds of marriages I've officiated, and if you don't have a particular cultural tradition or families to please, if you want to celebrate your relationship, then the point is that it's things you like.

...though there's some things that are standard for parties. Food, drinks, decorations, inviting your friends and any relevant family you're not estranged from or at war with. Sometimes there's activities or games.