Well, you could appoint someone. I suppose that's within the general duties of a Maid of Honor.
...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.
Re: around 336 now that there's a magical graduate meeting zone
...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.