Well, you'd have a guest list and someone checking attendance at the door.
Although—perhaps you should discuss who you want on your guest list with Aster, first. That's something normally both of you would do together, and perhaps find a compromise on.
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Well, my good wishes for you happy couples in the meantime. And I'll have a list of things to think about yourself and also ask them regarding food, decorations, music, and if you'd like to do vows—that's like making a public promise to each other.
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Aster likes this thing called “K-Pop”. And a bunch of different food to try is good — and it shouldn’t be formal, she’ll just get all freaked out about the rules and, like, study for it.
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They're gross, but Arya and Aster would like them, so. . .
Look, I––we didn't exactly have parties in the Fright Zone. That's why I thought I'd ask you, because I don't know how they're supposed to go, and I don't exactly know what to tell you we'd like.
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Well, you could appoint someone. I suppose that's within the general duties of a Maid of Honor.
...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.
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[Pls hold, cracking up into squeaky giggles –– she is 1000% picturing a "maid" from what she's seen in the occasional game and/or maid cafe Live tbh, a little frilly black dress and apron kind of deal.]
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Although—perhaps you should discuss who you want on your guest list with Aster, first. That's something normally both of you would do together, and perhaps find a compromise on.
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And they all get to see us having the better stuff so we can rub it in their lame little faces?
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You, uh. You really don't mind doing it? It's probably a hassle, or something. . .
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I mean, I'm probably going to ask Yvette to be on-the-ground support for a few things, but she'll be excited about it too.
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. . .Thanks.
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...no gold leaf on it, then.
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[She says it in a very fond tone, though. This is her idiot wife they're talking about.]
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[ and one utensil of each kind, we're not going to get weird with the place settings, ok. ]
How do you feel about desserts?
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Look, I––we didn't exactly have parties in the Fright Zone. That's why I thought I'd ask you, because I don't know how they're supposed to go, and I don't exactly know what to tell you we'd like.
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The most important part is that you all have fun and feel like it's appropriately special, and I'm sure that's doable.
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We should have a sentry, too, and throw out anyone who tries to sneak in!
[WITH ENTHUSIASM because party superiority is her priority, obviously]
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...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.
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[Pls hold, cracking up into squeaky giggles –– she is 1000% picturing a "maid" from what she's seen in the occasional game and/or maid cafe Live tbh, a little frilly black dress and apron kind of deal.]
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[Gives a dismissive handflappy motion.]
What about you and Ruby?
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