Well, you'd have a guest list and someone checking attendance at the door.
Although—perhaps you should discuss who you want on your guest list with Aster, first. That's something normally both of you would do together, and perhaps find a compromise on.
Well, my good wishes for you happy couples in the meantime. And I'll have a list of things to think about yourself and also ask them regarding food, decorations, music, and if you'd like to do vows—that's like making a public promise to each other.
Aster likes this thing called “K-Pop”. And a bunch of different food to try is good — and it shouldn’t be formal, she’ll just get all freaked out about the rules and, like, study for it.
They're gross, but Arya and Aster would like them, so. . .
Look, I––we didn't exactly have parties in the Fright Zone. That's why I thought I'd ask you, because I don't know how they're supposed to go, and I don't exactly know what to tell you we'd like.
Well, you could appoint someone. I suppose that's within the general duties of a Maid of Honor.
...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.
[Pls hold, cracking up into squeaky giggles –– she is 1000% picturing a "maid" from what she's seen in the occasional game and/or maid cafe Live tbh, a little frilly black dress and apron kind of deal.]
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Date: March 2nd, 2021 11:17 pm (UTC)Although—perhaps you should discuss who you want on your guest list with Aster, first. That's something normally both of you would do together, and perhaps find a compromise on.
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Date: March 3rd, 2021 12:01 am (UTC)And they all get to see us having the better stuff so we can rub it in their lame little faces?
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Date: March 3rd, 2021 12:03 am (UTC)Re: around 336 now that there's a magical graduate meeting zone
Date: March 3rd, 2021 12:05 am (UTC)You, uh. You really don't mind doing it? It's probably a hassle, or something. . .
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Date: March 3rd, 2021 12:15 am (UTC)I mean, I'm probably going to ask Yvette to be on-the-ground support for a few things, but she'll be excited about it too.
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Date: March 3rd, 2021 12:23 am (UTC). . .Thanks.
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Date: March 4th, 2021 02:08 am (UTC)...no gold leaf on it, then.
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Date: March 4th, 2021 02:20 am (UTC)[She says it in a very fond tone, though. This is her idiot wife they're talking about.]
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Date: March 4th, 2021 02:24 am (UTC)[ and one utensil of each kind, we're not going to get weird with the place settings, ok. ]
How do you feel about desserts?
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Date: March 4th, 2021 02:30 am (UTC)Look, I––we didn't exactly have parties in the Fright Zone. That's why I thought I'd ask you, because I don't know how they're supposed to go, and I don't exactly know what to tell you we'd like.
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Date: March 4th, 2021 05:36 am (UTC)The most important part is that you all have fun and feel like it's appropriately special, and I'm sure that's doable.
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Date: March 4th, 2021 05:38 pm (UTC)We should have a sentry, too, and throw out anyone who tries to sneak in!
[WITH ENTHUSIASM because party superiority is her priority, obviously]
Re: around 336 now that there's a magical graduate meeting zone
Date: March 5th, 2021 12:51 am (UTC)...generally you all ask your closest friends and allies to be your wedding attendants, if that's a thing you want to do. They get to wear a special outfit and might participate in the ceremony, and they help make sure everything runs smoothly.
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Date: March 5th, 2021 01:46 am (UTC)[Pls hold, cracking up into squeaky giggles –– she is 1000% picturing a "maid" from what she's seen in the occasional game and/or maid cafe Live tbh, a little frilly black dress and apron kind of deal.]
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Date: March 5th, 2021 03:36 am (UTC)[Gives a dismissive handflappy motion.]
What about you and Ruby?
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